How does one succeed in life?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Ask yourself:

Orchestral Music: How well synchronised in time do musicians have to be to sound as if they are playing together?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

What can you do if you are a full-grown adult, but never experienced being a child?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

What is your most erotic sex story?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

What I need from you?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

If a non-LGBT man (of any age) from a Western country attracts far more mosquitoes than potential dates, what does that say about him?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

What kind of pleasure do gay men get from being bottom? The idea is very appealing to me but in practice it's quite painful.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

That's it for today.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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Making more friends is a goal.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Is it possible for humans to determine their past life as an animal? Is there a scientific method to prove this?

Procrastinates a lot.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Musk's DOGE workers are now investigating Medicare and Medicaid. They want to eliminate fraud, but can they also be hurting poor Americans and senior citizens' benefits?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

How do we write and pronounce "it's my pleasure" in Italian?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Does not procrastinate.

Can you show pictures of your penis, big or small?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

What is your opinion on the band Nickelback? Why do they receive criticism from some people?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Living to your full potential is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.